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Tuesday July 10, 2001

What's the deal?

I got a phone call last night from one of my friends, who I haven't talked with in a few weeks. That's a very long time, considering her house is a three-minute drive from mine. She had some pretty interesting stories to tell me... all gossip, by the way. She told me about another friend of ours who has been going after a lot of guys lately. Well, not so much going after them as letting them get her. I'm starting to think this is a self-esteem issue. I worry about her, because I don't think she needs to be sleeping with different guys for attention. What the heck do I say? What am I supposed to do? Tell her, butt out, or what? This sucks. I just wish I could wave a magic wand, or something, and make her realize that she doesn't need this. If she becomes dependant on other people's affection (or whatever) to feel respected, will she ever respect herself? I hate this.